how to let him down easy.

26 Feb

I received an instant message from a friend last night:

“what’s a nice way to let someone  down? lol”

Most of us are sweet girls (some of us not so sweet haha), and don’t have the mind to hurt someone’s feelings. Here’s a few suggestions:

  • “its not you, its me” : the oldest cop out in the book. Let him know that it’s not him in a sense, you just have a lot on your plate right now and are focusing on yourself. Most people understand that.
  • “i’m not ready for anything right now” : also another classic cop out. Tell him you just got out of a long/bad relationship and you’re not ready for anything at the moment.
  • “my pet goldfish just died and I’m traumatized by the loss” : you couldn’t possibly bear to commit to anyone right now. You’re still too hurt by Goldie’s exit. (hahah okay, that was a bad one).

Those are just a few to get you started. Anymore suggestions ladies?


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